Live life the way you wish Girl !!!

How does it feel when you are not accepted the way you are ? Or let me put it this way, how does it feel when you are asked to alter yourself to fit in the criteria of someone else, as if, you yourself does not have your own identity, yes identity, my first identity is how I look, I may not be the so called perfect photoshoped  model that world sees on the cover page of magazines but whatever I am I have accepted myself and I am proud of myself. Just because I am dusky, skinny or obese, short or not so superbly crafted by nature does not make me less then anyone else in this universe. Incase if people have forgotten, everyone irrespective of his outer personality has a right to live the way ‘they’ wish to, and are not required by other people to be judged. They have a right to live carefree, not worrying about how people will look and think about them and they have all the rights to enjoy themselves.
If I am not good looking, or sorry if I may not fit in your criteria of so called good looking girl that is absolutely your problem World, I am not here to please anyone, I m here to live my life on my terms, I am here to live my life the way I want to. Yes I am dusky and I do not wish to spend my time working only on how to look fairer then my actual complexion because I do not care what you feel about me. Yes I am obese and I still wish to eat all what I like and wear all that I love wearing, because I am born with a purpose to enjoy the life gifted by God to me and I do not owe this to you World.
This is the level of confidence I wish to see in each and every female of our society and then I want to see how many people would dare to judge any female. Somewhere, it’s us who gives them this chance to make us feel low when we ourselves do not accept us the way we are. For the world to accept us, the first thing that we need to do is accept ourselves. We have worked hard to create an identity of ourselves working hard at home, at work and given our best at every point of time. We have many more things that makes us precious like our talent to work in corporate world and yet strike a wonderful balance between our personal and professional lives. Our outer beauty alone cannot justify our identity. If the world wants to judge they need to see the inner and outer qualities before passing the judgement, else stay away. We females are strong enough to handle our lives beautifully without judgmental people surrounding us.