Today I feel to write on a topic which is always read with curiosity specially among the younger generation, a topic which everyone loves to discuss and that's topic of LOVE. But somehow I feel the word love has changed its definition completely. LOVE a word which comes with an essence of sacrifice, a sort of craziness has somehow lost it identity completely in this today's new and modern world. People today are so addicted towards the mechanism and the modern technology that they expect the same kind of leisure and comfort even in relationships. People today are open for relationships but not for any kind of commitment towards life but, does that life make any kind of sense where there is no commitment towards your loved ones ???? at least not to me.
But, courtesy bollywood who feels and very proudly feels that they and only they can describe analyse and represent love, but, is it true ? Is that reel life love actually possible in our real lives ? but still we get carried away with all those reel life love stories but guys, LOVE is not just a physical attraction but much much deeper than a physical relation. Its all about committing ourselves to our partner for the rest of our lives, to be faithful towards our partner and most important is to respect our partner and accept him/her as they are.
But, In this modern and competitive world who follows all this,in fact I sometimes feels people do not understand the difference between their mobile phones and their girlfriends which changes as per the demand and requirements and everyone wants the latest model. There is one more important thing which I feel to add and I strongly feel that if its not added the topic would remain incomplete. There is one latest fashion in to days younger generation and that's break up ke baad friendship and again courtesy to our own bollywood. One of the latest and the most awaited movie love aaj kal displaays the same kind of relationship where a guy falls in love with a girl and suddenly they feel that they cannot remain happy together and happily end their relationship but, still remain very good friends with each other and unknowingly again get involved in the same kind of relationship with each other,but again there is a twist one partner suddenly realises the need to get married and again a breakup and a promise of no relation to make a happy married life but, suddenly 24 hrs post marriage bride realises that she is actually in love with her ex , how stupid is this now ? Just because you are beautiful, earn handsome salary and are very intelligent do u actually get a license to ruin any ones life ? yes, you are free to take your own decisions in life and can have a choice in your life but, you can never take anyone else for granted just because you yourself are not sure about your feelings in your life.
At the end of the movie everyone is happy ke hero heroine mil gaye but what about the guy who got married to that girl why is that love and sacrifice unidentified ? Isn't that true love ? Isn't that a true sacrifice ? I would like to add one more thing that I am not at all against the movie,in fact hats off to the director to make such an entertaining movie but, my only question is what after that ??? at the end of the day what message are we passing to our younger generations ??? to take people for granted specially who loves us truly just because we are not sure about our destiny ??? do think about it guys......
I would like to conclude it by saying that let the world be completely modern and full of the new technologies but, let the feeling of love remain as pure and as fresh as it was before. Let us not try and make it very comfortable and lavish as our other modern technologies.
